Dating in the 21st Century

We've come a long way from barn dances and "courting". Relationships still matter but there are so many moving parts, it is hard to keep up, and avoid mistakes. A lot of people just decide to remain single rather than risk being duped, or worse yet, hurt where only specific others have the opportunity to harm. That place where you make yourself vulnerable  hoping to be rewarded with connection, consideration, and compassion. There is a lot at stake. Text messages and social media profiles and  "busy ness" often get in the way of "authentic connection". The very thing we most desire. We understand that. We have been there and can help you. We have no intention of being decietful. We think a direct approach  is the best. Something like, "I like you a lot. My emotions are getting in the way of my logic. I'd like you to talk to "SCP" to help me move forward confidently. You have a right to say no, and if you do, that will be good information for me too."