Dating in the 21st Century

We've come a long way from barn dances and "courting". Relationships today have so many moving parts, it is hard to keep up, and avoid mistakes. A lot of people decide to just stay single rather than risk being duped, or get hurt in that place where they make themselves vulnerable while looking for connection, consideration, and compassion.

There is a lot at stake. Text messages and social media profiles and  "busy ness" often get in the way of "authentic connection". The very thing we most desire. Stray Cat Phishers understands that and we can help.

We think a direct approach is the best, but you get to control our actions after we work out a plan with you. You might consider saying something like, "I like you a lot. My emotions may be getting in the way of my logic. I'd like you to talk to someone I trust (Stray Cat Phishers) to help me move forward confidently. You have a right to say no, and if you do, I will understand." Your "person" now has a choice to make too. Do they want to be with you enough to be open and honest and vulnerable? The answer gives you very valuable information.